Ernest Newton (Bud) Stickels, Jr., 81, of 604 S. Hamilton Street, Eden, NC passed away on Friday July 22, 2011, surrounded by his loving family. Funeral services will be held 11 a.m. Monday, July 25 at Leaksville United Methodist Church, corner of Jay Street and Henry Street, Eden, NC with burial to follow at Lawson Cemetery. Bud was born June 22, 1930 in Baltimore, Maryland, the son of the late Ernest and Katherine Stickels. He was an engineering graduate of The Ohio State University. After graduation he joined the U.S. Navy and served as a Lieutenant. In 1976 he came to Eden as the Lead Engineer with Gilbane Building Company to construct Miller Brewing Company. After retirement, he became a financial consultant for Primerica. He was a member of Leaksville United Methodist Church and was a past teacher in the Men's Bible Class, served as a Trustee, and was one of the first Stephen Ministers for the Church. Bud was very active in the community, as a volunteer with SCORE, serving as president of The Eden Preservation Society, a member of the Eden Kiwanas Club, and Toastmansters. Bud is survived by his wife Phyllis Dyer Stickels of the home. He is also survived by his "northern" children; son; Mark, son; Scott and wife Liz, and darlin' daugher; Kathy Hare and husband Jim all of Maryland. His "southern" children; darlin' daughters; Ann Fair and husband Neil of Eden, Susan Pace and husband Bill of Eden, Phyllis Garrett and husband Dan of Austin, Texas, and son; Chip Cheek and wife Andrea Richards of Hollywood, California. He is survived by his grandchildren Stacy, Michelle, and Sammy Stickels; Betsy, Sally, and Emily Stickels; Zach and Devon Hare; Annie Fair and fiance' Dean Micetich and Alice Fair; Ty Pace and wife Torie; Brett Garrett; and Phoebe Cheek. Visitation will be at Fair Funeral Home on Sunday, July 24, 2011 from 6 - 8 pm and other times at the home. Memorial contributions may be made to Leaksville United Methodist Church, 603 Henry Street, Eden,NC 27288. Online condolences may be made to the family at www.fairfuneralhome.com
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of such a special man. I hope all the best for his entire family and know that he will be with us in spirit forever. His smile and warm welcome always made me smile, and as I remember him, it will make me smile for years to come. God Bless and be with you all at this difficult time. Lisa Finney Doss and Family Eden's Own Journal
Lisa Doss, & Family
We were so sorry to hear of Bud's loss. I will always remember him with a gentle smile and the way he showed his love and support of Phyllis. Heaven has gained a true gentle man. We will be praying for you all during this time and in the days to come. God bless you all. Our love to each of you.
Myron and Debbie Horton
Bud was a most precious man. His zest for life, and the love and support for his Phyllis were beyond compare. Jesus is calling His saints home one by one. My Bud's smile just made heaven a little brighter. My love and prayers to my little Phyllis and family.
Linda Glaspie
Bud was one of my many blessings after going to work at the Eden Chamber. I will never forget his smile and his gentlemanly ways. He had a way of making you feel special every time you saw him. I loved to hear him talk about his "honeypot" Phyllis. I will never forget "my buddy". RIP, Bud. I love you.
Lou Trollinger
We are very saddened to hear of Bud's passing. He will be greatly missed. Unfortunately, we are out of town and will see you upon our return. You are in our prayers.
Tammy and Eric Barker
We are so sorry to hear about Bud's passing. He always had that special smile and was a true friend to everyone that knew him. He meant a great deal to the entire Eden community. His willingness to volunteer his time and energies to many different causes was truly an inspiration. Phyllis, please know that you and the rest of your family are in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. God bless you.
Brad & Cindy Corcoran and Family
Bud greeted life with an ever-present smile. His positive attitude and his cheerful disposition made all who knew him feel important in his company. His charisma allowed him to influence and lead others positively. Always the gracious, polite, helpful gentleman, Bud was simply nice to be around! He (with Phyllis by his side) participated in several study courses that I have taught over the years at Leaksville United Methodist Church, and he was dedicated in attendance and participation. When I think of Bud, I think of Phyllis with my next breath. Both have always been gentle, loving, caring, and devoted to each other. They modeled for us all how to make the mature years of our living joyful and abundantly happy. I almost always found Bud with a book in his hands. His love of reading and his interest in the arts immediately connected us because of mutual interests. He liked many of the same events that I do. He loved attending plays at Triad Stage and couldn‚Äö?Ñ?¥t wait to hear my review of the latest one. I will miss him at every single opening next year. Our paths crossed often, and because we belonged to several of the same organizations, I will miss him at all of them. I have lost a friend whom I admire. Our church has to say farewell to a wonderful supporter and worshiper, and my friend Phyllis has lost the love of her mature years. I am sad that I won‚Äö?Ñ?¥t look up to see Bud enter the next class I teach with a smile on his face, with the tip of his hat in his hand, and with his Bible in his arms ready to study and learn more about the faith that was an integral part of this wonderful man‚Äö?Ñ?¥s life. Phyllis, we will help take care of you. I can only imagine the void you must feel today. Please know that the Ragans send deepest sympathy and love.
Fern Ragan
Dear Phyllis and family, We are very sorry to hear of Bud's passing. He was such a special man and will be missed by so many. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Beth and Darrin Pulliam
Phyllis and Family We were saddened to hear of Bud's passing. When I think of Bud, I see his cheerful smiling face. He was the kind of man who, when he spoke, everyone stopped to listen because you just knew he had something worthwhile to say. I will miss him at the EPS meetings and functions, he was a valued member and ardent supporter. Our prayers are with you in the next days, we know how hard the grief is while rejoicing that you will see him again one day. David Clay and Corina
David Clay and Corina
Phyllis and Family: No words or sentiments will express my sadness. Bud was a faithful member of the Men's bible Class. He was a true gentleman that had nothing but good things to say to you regardless of your economic status. He has run the good race and he has fought the good fight.... He has Won! May we all be so lucky..... In Prayerful Rememberance... Steven Cates
Dr. Steven Cates
Susan and family - I am so sorry for your loss. Remembering all of you in my prayers.
Sarah Talley Pierce
Bud was such a wonderful man. I admired the way he always treated others with such kindness and respect. He and Phyllis simply sparkeled as a couple. He will be greatly missed. My prayers and thoughts are with you, Phyllis and family.
Lydia McCormick
Phyllis and family, You all are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time in your lives.
Rebecca Warren
Dear Phyllis and family we are so sorry to learn of the loss of Bud. We feel blessed to have known him and we will miss his smile and positive attitude. Everytime we see the beautiful lights on the Island Ford Bridge or spend time in Governor Morehead Park he will be with us. Our prayers are with you.
Billy and Vivian Phillips
...my prayers are with you all. peace, ann
ann latham
The Stickels family are in my prayers - Sorry for your great loss
Phyllis Brown
To Phyllis and Family Jerry and I would like to express our deepest sympathy at the loss of Bud. He was a gentle and friendly man, who was well-liked for his beautiful smile. May God bring you peace and great love in his memory. Jerry and Chris Myott
Jerry and Chris Myott
Phyllis, Ann, Susan and other members of Bud's family, I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for all of you during this difficult time. God bless each of you.
Pat Fargis
So sorry to hear of Mr Stickel's passing. He was a very nice man, always very pleasant. Thoughts and prayers to the family.
Stacy Minichello
Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Kay Gammon
For all of the family. So sorry for about your loss. May God bless each of you. Linda Hubbard Setliff, Little River, SC
Linda Hubbard Setliff
To all the family, so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jack and Brenda
Brenda Hearne
To all of you: We are truly saddened by Bud's passing and will miss his gentle smile and his friendship. I will miss Bud's Sunday School lessons and having him sitting behind me in the pews. With love to Phyllis and all of his loving famiy, Addie and Bob
Bob and Addie Wilkerson
We are so sorry to hear of Bud's passing. He was truly a friend for all and an up-standing individual. It was an honor to work with him through EPS and other local initiatives. Eden has lost a stalwart member of the community. Our best to the family. John & Joan
John & Joan Cameron
We are thinking about all of you and keeping your family in our nightly prayer time. Bud was such a warm and kind person. He will be greatly missed.
Kara, Drew, Painter & Walker
Phillis, I am so sorry to hear of Bud's death. He was indeed a very remarkable person. I got to know him when taking a computer class. You and family are in my thoughts, cares, and prayers.
Cleo Fulcher
To Phyllis and all Family Members -We want to express our deepest sympathy through thoughts and prayers to all of you in the passing of Bud. Bud was such a kind person and always willing to help. It was a pleasure to have known him since we moved to Eden. We enjoyed both of you and all the work you've done through the Museum. Our prayers are with you. Kerry & Terri Faunce
Kerry & Terri Faunce
To Bud's Family-we wish to offer our condolences to all of you in the loss you have endured, may you find pease in God's kindness. Peggy and Jim Good
Peggy and Jim Good
Our thoughts and prayers to the family. We so enjoyed seeing him a few months ago at the restaurant and we are grateful to know him. His positive energy and caring spirit will be remembered always.
Amy and Catherine Chan
Sending thoughts and prayers to all of you. God's peace, with love.
Stephanie Roberson
I am so sorry for your loss. You all will be in my prayers.
Lisa Vernon
Dear Phyllis and Family, I am so sorry to hear about Bud's passing. I was talking to my sister Joyce tonight and found about this. He was a nice man, and I know that he was very special to Ann and Neil and the girls. I remember seeing you two together with my Mom and Dad when we came back to Eden to visit(at Meadow Greens) I know it must be very difficult for all of you . You are in our thoughts. Daphne(Fair) and Joe
Daphne & Joe D'Agostino
Phyllis and family, we are so sorry for your loss. Bud was such a fine man, one of the best, who will be greatly missed. We are out of town, but, please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Robert and Peggy
Robert and Peggy Nesbit
Wishing your family peace. With deepest sympathy, Ann Compton
ann compton
Dear Phyllis and Family, I was so sorry to hear of Buds' passing. You have my utmost sympathy and prayers. Bud shared alot of time with me and I always felt fortunate for his mentoring in many common interests we had. I especially remember the most valuable lesson Bud shared was the example he set in living every day. His friendly smile and enthusiastic personality simply made every meeting with Bud one that created a desire in me to become a better man in this world. What a legacy and inspiration! Bud leaves many positive memories in many hearts and we were all truly blessed to know him. In Christ Neill Watson
David (Neill) Watson
The staff of the Rockingham Kidney Center with to express our sympathy.Mr. Stickels will be missed.
Joyce Mcgehee
Dear Mrs. Stickels and family, I am so sorry to hear your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I will be thinking of you during this time. Best, Tyler
Tyler Harger
Eden will miss such a special person as Bud. Please know that our prayers and condolences are with you as you face the future and know that there are many who care. Shirley, Charlie, and Arthur Crisp
The Crisps
We were so saddened to hear that Bud had passed away. We have fond memories of his warm smile and welcoming words to us as newcomers to Eden. We especially remember the spirited conversations about Ohio State and the "Buckeyes". Our deepest sympathy to dear Phyllis and her lovely family. Our hearts are aching for you and our prayers are with you. Miss you too, Love, Tom and Debbie Merritt
Tom & Debbie Merritt
So sorry for your loss,Sincerely, Brenda & David Barksdale
Brenda & David Barksdale
I am so sorry for your loss. It seems like just yesterday I was talking to Bud. I know how much he loved life and his family. He was a wonderful man and he will be missed by everyone that had the pleasure to know him.
Carol Beasley
Please accept our deepest condolences. Bud was such a special man. He was always so willing to help. He will be greatly missed by all who had the privelege to know him. Praying for comfort and peace for the whole family. Love in Christ, Ricky, Teresa, Tanner & Jaegar Nance
Teresa Nance
Mrs. Stickels, Mark, and Family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I met Mr. Stickels as a teenager, and he was always kind, and a gentleman. I will miss his smile, his enthusiasm for living life fully, and his dedication to his family. No matter what he was faced with in life he always had a positive attitude. He will be greatly missed but each of us that had the pleasure of knowing him will carry a piece of him with us. My prayers and thoughts go out to all of you. God be with you, and bring you strength. Caren
Caren Benfield
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