Clarence Eugene Cheshire, 43, of 1372 Virginia Street, passed away Monday, January 17, 2011 at his home. A funeral service will be held at 2 PM on Thursday, January 20 at Old Time Baptist Church. Burial will follow in Cheshire Family Cemetery. Clarence was born July 13, 1967 in Eden, son of the late Joseph Wesley and Pattie Kallam Cheshire. He was a member of Old Time Baptist Church and was a deputy sheriff with Rockingham County Sheriff's Department. Surviving is his sister Mildred Cheshire and husband, Bobby Callahan of Eden; best friend, Frances Cheshire; and special friend, William East. The family will receive friends Wednesday evening, 7 - 9 pm at Fair Funeral Home and other times at the residence. Memorial contributions may be made to Rockingham County Humane Society, Boone Road, Eden, NC 27288. Online condolences may be offered to the family at www.fairfuneralhome.com
This world is a lesser place now, for all who knew him and was gladdened by his presence. May our Heavenly Father give you peace and comfort. Save me a seat at the table for I wish to dine with you again someday.
Sammy Farmer
SORRY TO HEAR OF THE DEATH OF "CASH". I ENJOYED WORKING WITH YOU AT C-COM, EVEN THOUGH YOU FROZE ME & IT WAS ACTUALLY WARMER OUTSIDE @ 17 DEGREES. YOU WERE ALWAYS FRIENDLY AND GOOD AS GOLD. LINDA ALWAYS TALKED TO YOU AT THE COURTHOUSE AFTER YOU WENT TO THE SHERIFF'S DEPT. YOU WERE ALWAYS THERE WITH A SMILE. WE WILL MISS YOU.
DAVID & LINDA SMITH
Mildred I am so sorry for your loss. I know there are no words that can help at this time. Clarence was a great man and will be missed by many. He had a heart of gold and was always helpful and friendly. Just know that he is in heaven with his mom and dad and you know he is looking down on you smiling. Call me if you need anything. I will be praying for you.
Amy Mendoza
Clarence will be missed by all that have come in contact with him over the years. He was always ready with a smile and made the world a better place just by his presence. I have no doubt that he is with the Lord and the angels are singing with joy. We will continue to remember you Mildred in our prayers.
Danny Gillespie
Clarence will be deeply missed. He is one of the finest people that I have known and I can not say one bad thing about. We hung out often when I was a young trooper there and had many good times together! Clarence was a joy to know and I will truly miss him.
Mitch Haunn
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. God Bless
Jerry Mayes
Big C was one of the finest, kindest, most gentle and sincere men we have ever met. Often, our five year old daughter, Lily, would send a stuffed animal to work with Eric and Big C would drive around with it in his car all day, take pictures with it and send the pictures back to her (which of course, made Lily very happy). Clarence provided a bright spot in an otherwise stressful day when he came into the Magistrate's office to see Eric. His presence and friendship would help Eric through an otherwise stressful day. Tina always enjoyed chatting with him when she stopped by and teasing him about wrestling and singing. He always gave her the sunniest smiles and best hugs. We are going to miss him dearly and are heart-broken over his passing. He was one of the good guys, in fact, he was the best! We will meet you in Heaven, good friend. We love you!
Eric and Tina Whitten
I can't say enough nice things about Clarence!!!! He always greeted me with a friendly smile!!!! My daughter loved to see him at the school. He will truly be missed by my family and me. God Bless! The Wades
Wesley Wade
Was so sorry to hear of Clarences passing. Clarence was always smiling. He was such a wonderful person and will be missed by all. I will have you all in my prayer's, and I know he is in heaven with the other Angels.
Vivian Fitzpatrick Hoskins
My deepest condolences to you and your family, Mildred. I am so very sorry for your loss. Clarence was such a very special man! My heart is heavy to find that Clarence has passed on. I'm sure he is wrapped up in God's love....and enjoying His presence. He will be truly missed. With love, Sue Spear
Susan Spear
Well, what can I possible say? I am certainly saddened to hear of Clarence's passing from this life. He was a fine person and a good friend. His kind-hearted personality was unwavering. His love for emergency services and law enforcement was evident by his dedication and years of service. I count it an honor to have grown in emergency services with him through the years and to have had the privilege to call him my friend. He will be truly missed.
Mark Young
I worked with Clarence at the Wentworth Town Hall. He was very special to us...like family. We love him and will miss him terribly. Mildred, you are in my prayers during this very difficult time. With deepest sympathy, Yvonne Russell
Yvonne Russell
To the family of Deputy Clarence Cheshire, You have our deepest sympathy on your loss.
David and Julie Slattery
Mildred I am so sorry for your loss know that you and the family are in my prayers. Clarence was one of those guys you only meet once in your lifetime,he used to ride with me in the patrol car and I have fond memories of those days. Clarence never had a bad day that I new of he was the sun on a cloudy day he always brighten up every bodys day. So rest easy in heaven my brother I,ll see you again someday love ya buddy,, Ret. Trooper Jerry mathis Sr.
Jerry Mathis Sr.
It was a pleasure and a blessing to have had a friend like Clarence in my life. One of the kindest, most gentle individuals I have ever known. Clarence, you are in a better place now, one where you will never have to put that uniform on again. Instead, you will now wear the uniform of God. I can only imagine what it must be like to be in his presence. We will one day meet again, until then, you will be forever in my heart. God bless you buddy!
Jerry Taylor
Clarence, you are missed so much! We lost a wonderful person this morning, but gained a soul to help watch over us. Thank you for all you've done! You helped me countless times grow as a Telecommunicator at Eden PD, CComm, and NCSHP- always happy to help, guide and never expect anything in return. May those of us left behind remember the great times, cherish what Clarence blessed us with most: himself!
Elaine Phillips
My heart deeply goes out to you all. Clarence was such a good person and dedicated LEO. He is in a better place now and one I hope to join if Clarence will let me in. May God Bless.
Mike Burns; Capt. retired RCSO
Clarence... there is so much to say.. you were and still r a very special person.. I will miss you .. Heaven has a special angel.. see you soon Cash... keep law and order in Heaven til we get there.. love ya ....
Mea "Alderman" Overby
Mildred, Val and I are so very sorry for your loss. Clarence was a very genuine person and always such a pleasure to be around. I was fortunate to know him since we were kids. We worked in law enforcement together and he wore the badge proudly and brought honor to our profession. However, I will always remember Clarence as a friend the most. He was one of the nicest people I have ever had the pleasure to know. We will miss him deeply, but are blessed to have known him. The comfort we all have is knowing that he is now with our Lord.
Valerie & Reece Pyrtle
My thoughts are prayers are with Clarence's family! He was such a gentle and kind soul!! Everyone that the privilege to know him, loved him. We had such a good time at our 25 year reunion!! These are memories that I will never forget! Heaven is truly blessed to have a man like Clarence in it's gates!
Gail McGuire
There will be a hole in my heart, as with my family. I was always glad to tell people that you were my cousin. Go and enjoy the splender that I know will be waiting for you in heaven.
Marie Dunn & family
Mildred, My heart goes out to you. I was so saddened when my son called to tell me that Clarence had passed away. He was such a sweetheart, I thought the world of him. I always had to give him a big hug when I would see him, he was my buddy and he will surely be missed by all that knew him. I pray that God will give you the strength you need in the days ahead. May the memories help you through the difficult times. God Bless you my dear friend!!! Love and prayers,
Tammy Cheek Jeffries
Mildred..We are saddened by the loss of such a fine and loving man. Clarence was a blessing in everyway and we are all blessed to have had him in our lives. Earths loss is definitely Heaven's gain today. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you....4A2F9C
Randy and Lisa Evans
Clarence was one of the most special people I have ever had the pleasure of knowing. He was real; and you can't say that about many people today. If Clarence said something to you, it was so. He was kind and sweet and this world will never be the same without him.
Debbie Gibson Lee
We are so sorry for your loss. He was a wonderful man and will truly be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marty and Lori Joyce
Mildred~ We had the pleasure of meeting Clarence when he moved to Arbor Glen Apartments. He became a neighbor and a very close friend. We will always treasure the friendship that we had with this honorable man. He will be missed more than words can express. But he will remain forever in our hearts.
Chuck McKenna and family
I am deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Clarence Cheshire. I remember Clarence as a very gentle person who NEVER had a bad day. He earned the utmost respect of those who knew and worked with him, even those outside the law enforcement community. I know I am a better person by knowing and working with Clarence. His strong religious beliefs were quite evident in his personal life. Godspeed Clarence Cheshire on your Next Patrol. E. F. "Buck" Kelley, NCSHP Retired
Buck Kelley
My prayers go out to you, the family that God will comfort and console each and every one of you in this time of bereavement. Clarence will be truly missed but never forgotten. His kindness and the love that he poured from his heart will allow his legacy to live on in those that had the opportunity to know him. I'll remember the joy that radiated from him at the 25th reunion of the class of 1985! Heavens gates have opened for the entrance of an angel!
Rosalyn Jackson
Our deepest sympathy to the family of Clarence.He was a friend from my ER days and spent time with my son Justin in EMS. He will surely be with our Lord.
The Stewart Family
Clarence was one of the nicest people I've ever met.He will be missed by everyone who ever met him.
Daphine Vernon
We are so sorry for your loss we both worked with Clarence and are going to miss him greatly, he was a good, honest, loving man with a huge heart. Love to Frances she was a lucky lil girl
Daryl and Heather Crowder
I can't say enough about Clarence Cheshire. He was a dedicated law enforcement officer and dear friend. He loved everyone. Clarence always had a smile. We'll miss that smile and personality Clarence. Rest in peace brother.
Rhonda & Todd Shelton
Mildred sorry for your loss
peggy snowdy atwal
Big C you are going to be missed truely with everything that went on i knew you were there for me. thanks so much you are in a better place i will miss you man.
WILLIAM HUNDLEY
this is a sad time for the cheshire family and may gods blessings be with you all
don searcy
I recently read a sign in front of a church that reminds me of Clarence. It read GOOD EXAMPLES MAKE A GOOD SERMON. Clarence led his life as a good example for all of us. God bless you.
Margaret Ladd
Clarence was a kind and gentle soul that touched the lives of many. His smile warmed the hearts of many and he will be truly missed. Heartfelt sympathy to the family and I pray God will comfort you and give you peace. We can find comfort in the wonderful memories we have of Clarence and I feel sure that he's in heaven smiling down upon us all. Heaven is a better place today because he's there. Grace and Peace.
Dawn McGee Miller
Praying for your family to comfort them at this difficult time. Clarence was indeed a kind & gentle soul. He will be truly missed.
Kevin & Laurie Suthard
I am so sorry to hear of Clarence "Chester's" passing. When he came into the Clerk's office as the bank's escort, we just thought he looked like a "Chester" to us. That is what we called him because it just seemed to fit him. He always had a laugh about it. I do consider him a dear friend. If he did not come into the Clerk of Court's Office everyone wanted to know where he was. He and I have spent a lot of time just talking and laughing about just "everyday things" that we had encountered that day. I lost my husband almost a couple of years ago and he and I have talked a get deal about that which has helped me in ways he would never know. I loved him as a dear friend and I will never forget him. My smypathy goes out to his family which he often talked about. "Chester" you can now rest in peace.
Debra Fowlkes
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Cheshire family. Deputy Cheshire touched the lives of those fortunate enough to meet him.
Nori and Melissa Kaneko
Clarence was truly a "gentle giant" I have known him since high school. He never seemed to have a bad day and had time for everyone he came in contact with. He will truly be missed.
Cathy Murray
Clarence was the true definition of the word ‚Äö?Ñ??friend‚Äö?Ñ??. He always had a smile to share and we were all blessed to know him. He will be missed by everyone who had ever met or known him, but his memory will be in our hearts forever. He was truly dedicated to his profession and to being the best person he could possibly be. Rest in peace brother; it was truly an honor to have worked with you and to have had you in my life. Mildred, you and your family will remain in our hearts and prayers. May God be by your side during this most difficult of times.
Rick and Tammy Hopper
Mildred I am so sorry and heartbroken over the loss of Clarence. He was one of the sweetest men I ever met, He just made everyone smile when he walked in the room. He loved his dog with A passion I know she misses him. Clarence always told my girls to be sweet and always gave us Big hugs, I am truly gonna miss him. I know you will be lost without him but just know hes with his Jesus, God has picked him as His chosen one just as he said, May God bless you and be with you in the days to come. Let go and Let God. Love you Donna and Maynard Smith
Maynard and Donna Smith
Clarence was the best of the best. He was a soft presence with a big heart. Clarence I will miss your smile and your advice when I needed it.
Gloria and Dale Doss
I have been truly blessed to have known Clarence since he was a teen ager and watched with pride as he grew into the remarkable young man he became. He was loved because he gave so much love to everyone else. He made the time to speak to everyone and genuinely take the time to listen and care. I never saw him without a smile and kind care. When I worked in the Morehead ER and Clarence dispatched for Eden PD, we always gave a sigh of relief just to hear him calm voice because we knew he was there doing his job and taking care of us all. He was truly an angel among us and will be greatly missed and can never be replaced. He was one of God's best and now he lives in his presence. Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this time. But please take comfort in knowing that Clarence will always live in the hearts of the many lives he touched in such a positive way. Vicki Thomasson and grandson Jacob
Vicki Thomasson
Clarence was such a sweet person with an incredibly huge heart. He will certainly be missed and never forgotten.
Shannon, Bill, Mackenzie & Hayden Wright
CC...thats what I called him. He would always make me laugh. Such a loving and caring person. He will be missed. Frances had the best Daddy. My thoughts and prayers go out to CC's family. RIP dear friend. God Bless.
Kellie Price
my deepest condolence to the family he was a good friend and i will miss him !!! mike gray leaksville fire dept. Sta.210
mike gray
Clarence was loved by everyone who knew him. He was sweet & kind and a joy to be around. Such a big, kind heart. Wentworth and all of Rockingham County has lost a special person who cannot be replaced. Our prayers go out to all of his family and close friends.
Teresa & Jimmy Woods
C-Man made sure we all laughed, showed absolute, undiluted loyalty to his friends, devoted himself to improving his community, was an advocate for animals, and possessed true courage. We won't forget any of those things. What will stay with us far longer are the drawn-out magic of his voice when he told a joke, his absolute ability to listen to other people, and the joy he brought to every gathering he attended. Yesterday, when we were crying at the news that C had left us, we could just hear him asking, with a smile in his voice, "What are ya'll doing...? Ya'll don't need to be worrying! Noooooo, ya can't do that...!" You're right, C-Man, because we'll be together again one day. You bring the filet mignon, and we'll bring a box of Cow Tales in every flavor. In the meantime, we'll try to follow along in your gentle footsteps.
Sam and Kathy Shelton
Mildred, though we have heard it said many times at the passing of friends and loved ones, somehow the phrase, "Our loss is Heaven's gain" takes on a deeper meaning when we apply it to Deputy Clarence Cheshire--the life he lived, the example he set, and all that he gave, particulary as the one assigned to "serve and protect" the citizens of Wentworth. I am sure the Town Council and staff joins me in expressing our deep-felt loss and our sincere sympathy to you and others who were close to Clarence. He told us many times that he loved us, that he considered us his family. He would come by the Town Hall to check on us, as he did many others in Wentworth, and if he didn't come by, we would call to check on him. The Town of Wentworth has enjoyed 3 wonderful Christmas parades, thanks to the hard work Clarence put into them. On a more personal note, I considered Clarence a friend in the truest sense of the word. He shared his faith with me in many ways, but mostly by the life he lived. I miss him, but I know I will see him again some day.
Brenda Ward
Clarence was such a good person. He will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Eric Belton
It breaks my heart for the world to lose a man as good as Clarence. There are never enough like him, I will miss his friendship.
David Atkins
How could you know Clarence and not love him to pieces? He was such a special friend to us! He was always in a good mood...always smiling!! Clarence we will never forget you! The nicest person you could ever meet or hope to be friends with!!! Our prayers are with his family during this most difficult times! May the God of all peace comfort your family during the coming days!! Love you Clarence!!! "Neice"
Mitch and Denise White
Mildred, I have known Clarence ever since before 1st grade. Your family lived the street behind our family and Clarence and I went all the way through school together. I always thought a lot of Clarence and he was alway very nice to me. I have never known Clarence to treat anyone with anything other than kindness. I would see him from time to time when I would come to Eden and he would always have a hug for me and I always enjoyed them so much because you could feel the sincerity behind all of them. I will miss running into him and getting my hugs. However I can only imagine the joy he is feeling right now seeing the face of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. He is shouting and worshipping at this very moment. Clarence you will be missed.
Jackie Newman Moore
Big C we are going to miss you.I know that you were saved and that means your a big winner now. Guess the Lord needed a special patrol officer for a special assignment. 1041 in heaven and 1042 on earth. We are going to miss that big smile,and your gentle ways. You truly were a gentle giant.
Mike and Sheri Murphy
Clarence, may you find rest and peace in the arms of our loving God. May your friends and family not grieve too long for a life cut short, but celebrate a life well lived. May your example of service, duty, and honor inspire us all to walk in your footsteps, not to fill them, but to continue on the path you've set. May we always remember your laughter, your selflessness, and your unwavering dedication to your family, friends, colleagues, and neighbors. Be at peace.
Kevin and Jenn Taylor
My heart is broken, my eyes filled with tears, but I know Clarence would not want that, for he is with our Lord and Savior and they are smiling down upon us. There are not enough special words to discribe Clarence. He is LOVED by everyone. I will greatly miss him and his stories about Frances and his Sister. He made each day worth living. Just seeing his face made you feel better. May God bless you during this time of sorrow. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jane Thornton - Clerk of Court Office
My thoughts and prayers are with you. "Cash" will be missed. He was a great and dear friend to me and my family. Rest in peace, Clarence and hug Tammie for me, would you?
Peggy Sutton
Want to send prayers to Clarence's family members.As we know Clarence ALWAYS had a smile for everyone and had a huge heart.So good to know he is with our Savior today and we will see him again.I had just seen Clarence a few days ago, so this really is a shock. May God Bless Mark Ellis
Mark Ellis
Clarence, what can I say except what a GENTLEMAN. You always made our day special with that beautiful smile. We will cherish our friendship forever.
Betty & Dewey Watkins
Mildred, I am so sorry for your loss. Just remember you have many friends here to love you and help you get through this terrible time in your life. I love you and will keep you in my prayers. Love you, Pam
Pam Carter
My heart goes out to the family of Clarence, may God be with you and give you strength to get thru the days ahead. I had the privelege of going to school with Clarence and knowing what a kind and gentle soul he was. He always had a smile on his face and the sweetest words to say. What a comfort to know he is with our Lord. I will miss you Clarence!
Arlene M Wade
Mildred and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. I remember attending Ole Time Baptist and Clarence would come in and speak to my daughter and I every time. He always had a smile on his face. I pray that you will find comfort in the coming days as you reflect on the memories left for you to cherish. God Bless you. Cheryl and Amelia Mann
Cheryl Smith Mann
I am so sorry for you'r loss. I know that who ever get's this message will have no idea who I am. But I knew Clarence well. He was a Great person with an even better soul. I could not believe the news when I heard it. He was so young. Gosh, it is still hard to believe. I guess maybe it's true what they say the good ones die young. He will really be missed. I am just happy that I have things to remember him by. Not that I could ever forget such a Great man. Again I'm sorry for you'r loss.
Jordan Baynes
Wentworth 1, Big C, C-Man what a friend you were. You are a childhood friend with a lot of memories of Sunday afternoon football and basketball games. God places people in your life that will make a difference and you were one of those to me. We will meet again someday my friend in a place with No worries, No stress and No tears. May piece be with your family. Love you, G
Greg and Wendy Light
My prayers and thoughts are with the family of my friend Clarence "C-Man" Cheshire. It has been my honor to have worked at the Rockingham County Sheriff's Office with him and I will personally miss him.
Dean Venable
We were blessed to have known Clarence as one of the kindest and most gentle of souls. We just celebrated our 25 year high school reunion in the fall and it was so wonderful to see that he had not changed a bit--he danced and laughed and was the same person we have always loved. He will be missed by all those who were fortunate enough to know him.
Eddie and Dawn Jones
I am so saddened by the sudden passing of Clarence. You were such a kind and caring man. You were a friend to everyone and never had a bad word to say to anyone or about anyone. I pray you are enjoying all your greatest wishes and dreams, surrounded by all your loved ones and friends. Rest in peace dear friend.
lisa baynes - bernier
Clarence was one of the best examples of a Christan Man that I've ever had the privilage of knowing in my entire life; and I've known him just about that long. Even as a child, he always had a ready smile for everyone, a hand to help you out, and hug when you needed one. If I wasn't glad that I had attended our reunion before, I certainly am now, it was well worth the price of admittance to see Clarence being Clarence, laughing, talking, dancing and having fun. And most of all to get one last of the best bear hugs on earth. You will be missed Clarence. Rockingham County just got a lot emptier, because we lost a great man. Love you!
Jana Harvey Williams
Mildred I was shocked to hear about Clarence"s passing yesterday. He was such a sweet and thoughtful person. I am so glad to have gotten to know you and him. May the Lord give you and the family the strength and comfort to get through this sad time and the days ahead. If there is anything I can do please let me know. Clarence may you Rest in Peace. Love You Thelma(Eden,N.C.)
Thelma Fargis
I'm so sorry to hear of Clarence's passing. I and my son worked for Rock. Co. Sheriff's Dept. Jail. I'll be praying for your family during your time of loss. Clarence was a wonderful man! Deepest regrets.
Renae Denny
To the Cheshire family, so sorry about the passing of C-man. He will be missed by all. You are in my prayers and thoughts. May God bless.
Ksren Robertson
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family. Clarence was a wonderful person and he will be missed. I am glad to have known you Cash and I know you are home now.
Alan Farrar
My heart and soul are hurting from the loss of such a great man. I admired and respected Clarence so much. He was always willing to help anyone and always had a positive attitude towards life. I remember the times that Clarence and I got to work side by side and it saddens me that we can not ever do it again. I can remember one night when I was given a large disturbance call and all the other deputies were busy and I had no one to assist me I then heard a familiar voice on the radio say "County 36 C-Com, 10-41" and moments later Clarence was standing there wearing his jogging pants and duty belt in the middle of the night and I thought to myself, this man is truly dedicated to his profession and to helping his fellow peace officers. And I can't forget our many days of serving warrants in the jail together. Every time I passed him he had a smile on his face no matter how busy he was. It was an honor serving with you, thanks for always having my back...now God's got your back. Rest easy my brother, until we meet again... With Love forever Cash, Kelly and Jerry Hacker <3
Kelly Hacker
I was deeply saddened to hear of Clarence's death. He fought the good fight by protecting and serving the citizens of Rockingham County. Not only have we lost a dedicated community servant, but a true friend. He was one of the kindest men I knew. He was a comforting friend in my time of despair and I will never forget him. He will truly be missed. See you on the other side my friend!!
Lisa Marshall
Clarence lead all our motorcycle rides at Wolf Creek Harley Davidson.He was a kind man with a big smile and a good word for everyone.I will miss him greatly.My thoughts and Prayers are with the family.
David Reece
To My Fellow Big Guy, I will miss your presence, our conversations and our meeting spot at the old magistrate's office. You provided a smile when it seemed hard to find one during our daily work routine. Your presence now is with Our LORD. My prayers to your family. You Will Be Missed!!!
Wardell Williams, Jr.
To the Family of Clarence, I'm so sorry for your Loss of Clarence. I'm going to Miss Clarence at Church. He was A Great Guy. It's not going to be the same without seeing him at church. He was Always Smiling and He loved his Little dog Frances who he always had with him. RIP Clarence . I will see you oneday. God Bless the family. I will be Praying for yall. God Bless, Crystal.
crystal smith
Clarence always had a smile and a funny story.He was a big man with a big heart.Everyone can certainly learn a lesson in kindness from Clarence.Thank you Big "C" for being my friend for a short time I will miss you...315
Todd Hanks
I was shocked and saddened to hear the news of Clarence passing. I was fortunate to share enough time with Clarence to know what a genuine man really is! He will surely be missed! Certainly he is resting in the arms of Jesus. Thoughts and prayers with love.
Stephanie Roberson
Never was a more kindler, gentler spirit placed here on Earth. Clarence certainly touched many of our lives with his sweet, caring nature. I am proud to have considered him not only a friend, but someone who made this world a much better place. He will truly be missed. Please accept my deepest sympathies during this most difficult time.
Michele Archer
Well...there's nothing we could add that hasn't already been said about "Cash". He was a wonderful person who brought sunshine to every room he entered. He will certainly be missed by all of us. We will be praying for the family.
Talmadge & Gail Priddy
My days of knowing Clarence go way back to the 1980s when I began as a deputy at the Rockingham County Sheriff's Office and Clarence worked for the Stoneville Police. In those days, usually late at night or early in the morning, a group of officers from the county and west side towns would go 220 Restaurant and fellowship. Lots of times, we would all end up laughing until our sides hurt. And in my dispatcher days, if there wasn't a back-up deputy anywhere close by to assist, it wasn't uncommon for Clarence to say that he was on the way to help them to make sure they would be okay. He lived law enforcement and he loved it too. And that was on top of the many other jobs he was dedicated to. He had a heart of gold and no matter where I saw him, he always had a smile on his face and a handshake ready for me as he called me Markus. We never know when our time is coming, and for every day we live, it end grows closer -- but Clarence lived his life fully on this earth and was happy in everything he did. His tour of duty on this earth is over and now he's resting with God while watching over the rest of us. God bless you, Clarence Cheshire.
Mark Childrey
Cheshire..we can't believe that you are gone. Our house will never be the same again. We always knew that you were loved and well thought of in our community but its truly amazing to see the lives that you have touched. We know that we are better for the time that we spent with you. I'm not sure that we will ever be able to eat at our table again with your seat being empty. Rest easy and watch over us.10-42 36.
Erica and William East
I've just recently heard the news about the loss of a dear friend and former co worker. Although, we never wore the same uniform at the same time. Clarence was considered by me and everyone that new him a friend. For all you have to do is read on here of all the lives that he has touched. I first met clarence when he worked in stoneville, he always offered a hand shake and shared a smile with everyone he encountered. Our loss is heavens gain. I'm sorry that I won't be able to attend any services, for I'm currently out of town. May you find the peace and love in our savior, and With my deepest sympathy. Kelly
Kelly Lovings
it was a pleasure knowing clarence he was always full of life & served the public in its fullest respect.i can still hEAR HIS VOICE WHEN HE WAS A DISPATCHER FOR ROCK. CO JOEL MADREN CHIEF REIDS. RESCUE, DEP. CHIEF WILL. VOL. F/R
joel madren
Clarence was an amazing person, he always had a smile to give and got along with everyone. He was very special and will be missed tremendously.
Kimberly Hodges Haney
I wanted to offer my deepest sympathy to your family. I have known Clarence since he worked at the Eden Mall and I don't know anyone that has ever had a bad word to say about him. He always had a way of making you smile. Clarence was a very special person with a kind soul; he will greatly be missed.
vickie m.orum
Clarence was always the sweetest person I've ever met. I will always hold fond childhood memories of Clarence on Riverside Drive & Trinity Wesleyan Church. With Deepest Sympathy & lots of love!
Tonya Terry Philpott
The world lost a wonderful man. Heaven has gained a beautiful angel that will sing the praises of Jesus. JAABA1We will him.
Marie Dunn
C - I will hold the good times we shared close to my heart. My memories of our friendship are priceless. I love you forever, dear friend.
D
Mildred, my heart goes out to you in the loss of your EXTRA SPECIAL brother. Clarence was a true helper of mankind. He will surely be missed. The last time I saw Clarence was at an accident where a vehicle left the scene after hitting my vehicle. Clarence was in front of me and when he heard the crash, he jumped out of his patrol unit and came to make sure I was o.k. He showed such concern for me. On Monday, the Lord needed a special angel in Heaven and that angel was Clarence who I will see again one day and hear that special laugh of his.
Sandra Duncan
My thoughts and prayers are with all off you now both family, friends and co-workers. May peace be with you Denise S. McKee NCDMV Wentworth
Denise McKee
Mildred, you had a very special brother. I worked permanent third shift in Guilford County when C-man worked permanent third in the communications center. He would call me and say, "Razor, stop by the grocery store and get some orange juice. I am gonna fix us some breakfast." And he sure would. I spent many nights in the communciations center talking with C-man. I was very happy and excited for him when he was hired by the Sheriff's Department. I enjoyed working with him when I transferred to Rockingham County. He will be missed greatly!!
Ray Gibson
So sorry to hear about Clarence. I didn't know him personally, but through work. He was always so nice and kind to everyone. We will truly miss him coming to the office. All of you have my deepest sympathy. Susan C.
Susan Childrey
My sincerest condolences to the family-- I met Clarence many years ago, when I worked at Sidney's in the Eden Mall. He became a good friend of myself and my co-workers. Truly one of the most pleasant persons I have ever come across..he always had a smile on his face, and was willing to help anyone anyway that he could. He will surely be missed.
Anne M.
Never have I seen so many wonderful things said and thought of one person, in this case, they are ALL well deserved!!! Clarence, I consider myself blessed that I got to know you and work with you!! Your dedication, understanding, and always smiling personality are what we all should strive for as employees of an Emergency Services Agency!! Thank you so much for blessing my life and offering a helping hand when needed!! I will miss you buddy!!!!
Kristi Hensley (Rockingham County EMS)
Clarence, You will be missed more than words can say! We can still see you sitting in your chair in the lobby while we worked. You always had a smile and you always gave a smile. Thanks for the memories.
the staff at Fidelity-Wentworth
Clarence had a pure heart, which is the most one can say about someone. He was person to be admired in his character and approach to life, and I will miss him.
fred p. baggett, wentworth town attorney
I remember the times that we worked at the Gant Station and we got to know each other well and some good times. Also the times you would ride along with some of us at night. I was so glad to see you get into law enforcement work because you were made for it. To the family Clarence will be missed greatly. C-Man rest in peace and stay on patrol in a better place.
H.C. and Myra Phillips
Mildred, My condolences to you. Just read all the notes and you will know what a great person your brother was to so many people. He will surely be missed. I will miss him, he was such a joy to be around. I know he is patrolling the streets of glory. Have peace, Your Lord Called another Centurion Home. He has the best Watch Commander he has ever had.You may not understand why, but there is a reason.The Lord will give you Grace, to get through this. Brad & Martha Wade
Lieutenant Brad Wade Ret. Eden Police Department
I am so sad for everyone that you know. Without you here to bring that big smile and that always loving hug the world seems smaller. That hug alone could make the worst day of you'r life seem just a little bit better. Always with a kind word and a big heart. A heart of gold. The best soul, personality, and spirit of anyone I have ever known. U will be truly missed. Nothing but love for you "Cash"
J
It was with great sadness and regret when I was informed about the passing of Clarence. I was introduced to Big C a few years ago in the magistrate‚Äö?Ñ?¥s office, and found him to be a pious gentle man, with a kindness which has touched so many. Every time I would see Big C, we talked about the problems in the world at large, and he would always say, if we all had faith in GOD then the most of the worldly problems would not exist. How right you are my friend, how right you were. Big C, I can see you smiling down on us from where you now sit with the angels giving you comfort and rest you truly deserve. You are truly missed.
Majid Hassan
I knew Clarence for only a short time, far too short a time...but long enough for him to touch my life in the special way that I am learning he had such a knack for doing. Clarence was a blessing, and I consider every moment I spent getting to know him a special gift to be forever treasured. I can still hear his laughter ringing...I hope that the sound will stay with me. He was indeed an angel on Earth, and now he is one of God's angels, a guardian angel watching over those he loved.
Mary Buckhalter
My deepest condolences go out to the Cheshire family and the many friends that clarence had.I had the pleasure of working with clarence at white dot and quick check some years ago. Clarence always had a smile on his face and was kind to every one he came in contact with and he will be missed by many. I pray that God wraps his loving arms around each and every one who knew and loved clarence and gives you the strength to get through this very sad time,may we all find comfort in knowing that clarence is in heaven with his mother and still watching over us.
Cindy Curry
I could not beleive it when i heard that clarence had passed away.We graduated together and had just celebrated our 25 year class reunion and he looked the same.Always had a big ole smile on his face everytime that i seen him.Gonna miss you big man.Your little buddy Lee Woods.
Lee Woods
We are so sorry for your loss. Clarence was such a great person and friend that always had a smile on his face. We will miss him deeply. All of you have our deepest sympathy. Bobby & Teresa Leake
Bobby Leake
Clarence was the most genuine, kindhearted man I knew. He was a wonderful christian and he loved the Lord. Clarence was my prayer partner at work. He loved his family and his friends. It's obvious how many lives he touched while on earth. My prayers are with his family.
Cameron
I am praying for you! Just don't forget Jesus can and will give you the peace to get thru this. He loves us so much. If you need anything Mildred, i am just a phone call away. :)
Tricia Evans
So sorry for your lose. We have known him for a very long time. We also worked with him and we were friends with him!! I am really sorry for your lose!!!
Kathy, Dewey, & Rebecca Wilson
I send the family my condolences of this sadness. Clarence was just a one of a kind person. He always had nice things to say about everyone. He will be missed deeply. His kindess and concern of others was impeccable. May God bless you during this loss and each day.
Tommy Griffin
Clarence will be missed. He touch alot hearts in Rockingham County. My prayers go out to all the family and friends. Just know that he his in the handa of the Lord now!!
Wanda Sue Denny
Clarence will very much be missed. He not only was a fine law enforcement officer, he was fine person. He always had a smile on his face and he could always make me smile. Rick Hurley United Way of Rockingham County
Rick Hurley
Clarence Cheshire was the kindest, most gentle person I've ever known. He shared his faith in Christ boldly, and so honestly. Yet he lived that faith openly to the world with a genuine humility and grace...Thank you, Clarence, for making this world a better place. I will miss you. Your friend, Marilyn Payne Resource Development Director United Way of Rockingham County
Marilyn Payne
He was a special friend.
billy and becky king
There was never a time when I saw "C" that there was not a smile on his face. He was always positive and I never heard him say a cross word about anyone. My spirit was always lifted with each encounter, even though many were brief. Yesterday, at the request of a dear friend,I drove his car to the circle so it could be cleaned for his service. As soon as I started the engine the radio came on and I noticed it was tuned to 106.7 (K-Love). The first sound I heard coming through the speakers was the beginning of the song "I Can Only Imagine." We all miss Clarence deeply and we know he is waiting for us to experience, and not just imagine, what he already has.
Catfish
When I read that we had lost our beautiful friend, Clarence, my heart broke a little more.I remember him from church, school, and the White Dot. Many, many nights Joey and I would go and hang out with him and Mr.Shelton. Clarence was an amazing man. He was there for me during our tragedy. He was the one tapping my hand and trying to get my to wake up. Later he came to the house to see me and Joey and he let me ask any questions I had. What a GREAT friend we had in him. He'd even watch Joseph if I had to go to the restroom during a Morehead football game. He was GREAT and I miss him so much already. He was an angel here on earth. So kind and willing to help. He had even given me his cell in case I got scared while Joey worked nights. Oh how we'll miss him. May God Bless and comfort your family in your time of grief. Love and Prayers, Joey and Jan Johnson P.S. And from our angel Joseph who's already in Heaven with you!
Joey and Jan Johnson
To the Cheshire family. Not only did i know Clarence very well from White Dot and just around town, but, i also knew his dad really well too. I live beside the Cheshire family cemetary and have looked after it for several years. Joseph would come and sit on my porch and talk for hours while visiting the cemetary. He loved talking about his family and the lord just like Clarence. Clarence and his dad were the most honest and caring people that i know. Clarence will be missed just like his dad. Gods word tells us that to be absent from the body is to be present with the lord and i know that Clarence is just that, along with his mom and dad.I will miss seeing Clarence around town and will miss that big smile he always had on his face. May god grant you grace to make it through this difficult time in your life. Maynard and Mildred Lancaster
Maynard Lancaster
As Gail & I left the funeral home Wednesday night to pay a much deserved respect to the (C Man), I remember a past member of our church who made a recording and passed it along to some of our church members. The title was "Leaving Your Footprints". As you read the previous messages and if you witnessed the large crowd of people Wednesday night at the funeral home, it clearly shows that Clarence left many footprints during his lifetime. He touched many people all across the state. He was known and loved by many. He had faith in God which was most important. Everyone has their stories just as I do. But the most important story is just beginning. This story begins and continues even after his death. The story of his life which is being written by his friends and family. The stories being told by many who gather in small groups and converse to one another about the good times. So what kind of Footprints did Clarence leave? Well, I think that question has been answered. Look around. See the impact that he made on all of us, then ask yourself, How can I improve my "Footprints in Life"?
Rocky & Gail Turner
Clarence and I wnt to school together, and I will always remember him being kind and happy person. His death was too soon, and has made me think now life is more precious than I ever thought. My deepest sympathy goes out for his family. I know you are probably in shock, but I bet Clarence is looking down on all of us smiling.
Bobby Gilley
So sorry for the loss of Clarence. If only we could all love & be loved like him. It would be such a better place for all. May he rest in Peace.
Tinker Rush
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Clarence many years ago through EMS. He was a great guy. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Toni Festerman
Big C such a gentle, caring, compassionate man. I will miss you my friend. Your service to the citizens of this county and your co-workers was remarkable. Rest in peace........
Joni Fowler
I've watched C grow up down the road on Front Street and he went to school with my boys and now I've had the privilege of working with him at the sheriff's office. He was such a gentle soul and fun to be with. I'm so sorry for your loss we are all going to miss C. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family and please know he is so happy today and I'm sure you can see how much he was loved.
Cynthia Blackwell RCSO
Great guy who will be missed. Rest in peace. Ken Grubbs. RCSD, Retired
Ken Grubbs
It is absolutely amazing to see how many lives Clarence touched! May everyone find comfort in knowing that HEAVEN welcomed another ANGEL! He is smiling down on everyone as he patrols the streets of gold!!
John and Susan Edwards
Clarence was a true gentleman, my heart aches to know he is gone, but happy to know he is in heaven watching over us. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, and Will and Erica, and especially little Gracie. Rest in Peace Clarence.
Crystal Walker Martin
What a wonderful world we would live in...if each of us treated each other the way Clarence treated everyone he came into contact with. My daughter was sad to hear of his passing. She said "he always sends us the most wonderful Christmas cards". Not one Christams has passed since meeting Clarence that my family didn't recieve a Christmas Card, that was 16 years ago. Rockingham County lost the most honest and loyal deputy that it has ever seen. Mildred, WIlliam and Erica rest easy that Clarence is watching over you now and will always be with you. Knowing "C" he is looking down right now smiling and thankful to have had a sister and friends like you in his life. REST EASY "C", you will be missed.
Angela and Clint Simpson
A person is often measured by what they "did" with their life. Big C did so much more with his than most people even dare! And the beauty of it is... that wasn't his intention. Simply, by his nature, he was a true, honest, sincere, and good friend to all. Just read these messages. There is no greater testamony! Big C made, and left, more "Footprints" on more lives than than anyone I've ever met, or known! "Thank you" Big C for touching my life!!! Rest well, my friend!!
Kathy
IT DOESN'T SEEM RIGHT HERE IN THE CLERKS OFFICE WITHOUT SEEING CLARENCE AND HIS SMILE! I DON'T THINK HE REALIZED THE JOY HE BROUGHT INTO OUR OFFICE! HE WAS SUCH A PLEASURE TO WORK WITH AND WILL BE GREATLY MISSED BY MANY. I KNOW HE WOULD BE PROUD TO KNOW WHAT KIND OF IMPACT HE ACTUALLY MADE ON SO MANY PEOPLES LIVES. THANK YOU CLARENCE FOR BRINGING SUNSHINE TO OUR OFFICE ESPECIALLY ON THE STORMIEST DAYS! I KNOW YOU WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO EVEN IN HEAVEN!
KELLY CARTER
TO MILDRED AND FRANCES,WHO MY HEART HURTS FOR, AND I KNOW WILL MISS CLARENCE SO MUCH! I HAVE KNOWN CLARENCE FOR ALMOST 16 YRS. AND DURING THOSE YEARS HAVE ALWAYS THOUGHT THAT THERE WAS ONLY ONE "CLARENCE." I HAVE ALWAYS LOVED HIM SO MUCH AS MY VERY, VERY DEAR FRIEND, WORKING WITH HIM AT THE CLERK'S OFFICE ONLY MADE IT THAT MUCH MORE SPECIAL. TO SEE HIM AND TALK TO HIM EVERYDAY, AND TALK TO HIM ABOUT FRANCES AND WHAT HE WAS GOING TO COOK SPECIAL FOR HER EACH NIGHT, WE WOULD JUST LAUGH!!! CLARENCE HAS ALWAYS HAD NOTHING BUT GOOD TO BRING TO THE TABLE, HE WAS A TRUE GENTLEMAN, AND TRUE OF HEART. WHAT I LOVED ABOUT CLARENCE THE MOST WAS THAT HE NEVER JUDGED ANYONE. HE ALWAYS HAD A SWEET AND HONEST SMILE OR HUG FOR YOU, THAT YOU WOULD LOOK SO FORWARD TO. EVEN THOUGH MY HEART FEELS AS THOUGH IT WEIGHS A TON, BECAUSE I WILL MISS HIM SO MUCH, I KNOW THAT GOD TAKES THE GOOD FOR HIMSELF, AND THERE ARE CERTAIN PEOPLE THAT ARE ONLY MEANT TO BE HERE FOR A SHORT TIME, TO TRY AND BRING PEACE AND UNDERSTANDING TO OTHER'S LIVES, AND SHOW THEM A BETTER WAY TO BE, THAT'S WHAT CLARENCE DID WITH EVERY BREATH THAT HE TOOK, IT'S ALMOST LIKE WE KNOW THEY ARE TOO GOOD FOR THIS WORLD,AND THEY GOD WILL LEND THEM TO US FOR A WHILE, BUT GOD, DON'T YOU CONSIDER YOURSELF BLESSED TO BE ONE OF THOSE WHO GOT TO KNOW AND BE WITH HIM WHILE HE WAS HERE! CLARENCE DID WHAT GOD PUT HIM HERE TO DO, AND HE DID IT SO WELL, NOW HE WILL DO IT FROM UP ABOVE, THANK YOU GOD FOR LETTING ME BE TOUCHED BY SUCH A WONDERFUL BEING!!!!
SONYA MCKINNEY
I have had the honor of meeting Clarence on several occasions. He was always smiling and very cheerful. I am involved with Rolling Ridge Riding and he has on several occasion helped us with traffic and crowd control. He always greeted our special riders with a smile and gave encouragement. I am so sorry for your loss and he will truely be missed. God Bless your family and I pray you all find peace and will grow closer to the Lord in your time of need.
Kim Kendrick
YOU WILL BE MISSED I DONT HAVE ANY CHILD HOOD STORYS BUT I KNEW YOU AS MAN WHO SERVED HIS COMMUNITY AND WITH A GREAT SINCE OF HUMOR GOD BLESS AND KEEP HEAVEN SAFE MY BROTHER IN LAW ENFORCEMENT
AR SWANSON
Clarence you have touched our family.We love you and you were a very caring man.There is no one that you did not get along with.I will always rememember the times that you came to our house and eat with us.Also the times that you spent with my guys. I know for a fact that they truly enjoyed themselves especially the day that you all went to Ruby Tuesday's in Danville.I will never forget that Eddie told me all about it!You will truly be missed.You are a Angel in Heaven with my father!May God Be with your Family...
Romona & Eddie Harbour and Family
Clarence, you know... I had no idea how many of our family jokingly said we should have been brothers because we were so much alike. I guess big guys who love wrestling and their mama are alike, huh? LOL! I know you was watching today's service from up above. And, I bet you was saying, "What's causing all this?" just like Ric Flair... used to say. You caused it, man. You caused it. You were such an amazing soul and I meant every word of what I shared with your friends, family, and co-workers today. If I can live to be 1/10th of the man you were then I will be able to leave this world knowing I was a good man because you was a GREAT man. I wish I had gotten to tell you just how much I thought of you... but somehow I think you already know. I'm going to miss you so much, man. Be it 20 minutes or 100 years though, I'll see you again. I love you, man.
Aaron Goins, Jr.
Clarence, worked for me at the Gant on Meadow Rd. In The late 80's I have never met a more honest and caring person. I will miss him.
Frankie Fields
I was deeply saddened and grieved when I heard the news that Deputy Cheshire had passed away. He was our hero. Each year that we have held fundraiser events for Rolling Ridge Riding (a non-profit that gives away free therapy based horseback riding to special needs children), Deputy Cheshire has been here, directing traffic and keeping us safe. He did his job so well, and he was truly a kind hearted, caring soul. This is a great loss for us all. He will be GENUINELY MISSED by all of us at Rolling Ridge!
Kathryn Davis, Director Rolling Ridge Riding, Inc.
My wife and I returned home from time out of town just to learn the heartbreaking news of our community's loss of Clarence. What a wonderful man....there was never a conversation I didn't enjoy with him at the courthouse or a time when he was anything less than professional in the carrying out of his duties as a deputy. I often watched Clarence transport prisoners from the magistrates office to the jail, and Clarence--to his credit--treated each wrongdoer with a kindness that many would think they didn't deserve. I like to think that perhaps Clarence learned this practice from our Lord, who through his Grace forgives wrongs that we probably don't deserve. Clarence is in good hands now.
Randy Cresenzo
To the Family, I am so sad to hear about the death of your brother. We are going to miss him so much. I can remember both of you when you were just little children playing at the church with my 3 children, Tommy, Patty and little Bill Hailey. Clarence always had a big smile on his face. He was always good to everyone that he saw and greeted. Life is very short. I remember your sweet mother, Patty, very well, what a wonderful mother, and women she was to have to go to Heaven at a early age in life, but isn't it great to know, that your brother is with her now, holding on to each other and walking down that garden of Eden together with a new body, no pain, no fears, and knowing that both of them are looking down on you right now as angels to take care of you until one day, you to, will be with them. God bless you. I am so sorry I wasn't able to be with you at the funeral because of surgery. I hope to see you soon or call me any time at 627-4732. Carolyn Hailey
Carolyn Hailey
I was saddened to learn of Clarence's death. Clarence worked at Stoneville Police Dept. during my time as Mayor of Stoneville and was an outstanding officer, a friend and a gentleman. My wife, Nellie, and I share in your loss and send to you our deepest sympathy. May the Lord help you through this time of grieving.
William E Crews
Dearest Family Members, Words cannot ease your sorrow, grief, and pain but God can do that for you.Clarence was a very special student, gentleman,citizen to his community as well as being loved by everybody. He had love in his heart and it showed on his face.I'm blessed to have known him and to know without a doubt he is resting in the arms of Jesus.His life was a testimony to everybody he came in contact with. He is missed and will never be forgotten. Love in Christ, Barbara
Barbara Gammons
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